I have noticed that when people tell their own stories, often it has less to do with wanting to communicate an idea to another than with clarifying an emotion to themselves. Or when the subject of the story is beloved and missing, as a way to make them here and alive. Lydia Minatoya
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My grandfather always used to tell me his story, and I loved hearing it. He was a man of many stories. He told me that he had come to America with nothing, and that he had managed to get very rich in the process. He told me that he had never stopped working his entire life, and that he would be happy to take any job that I was interested in.

But, when I remember the things he told me about himself, it was all about his family. His son had died when he was very young, due to illness. And his wife had died not too long after.

And his brother had died in an accident when he was quite young as well. It seems that my grandfather didn’t have much time to just tell the story without living in it all at once. All of these stories were simply there to remind him that death is always around the corner, waiting to take something dear away from us.

Source: The Strangeness Of Beauty

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